The truth is you are the only person that decides who comes into your life or what messes you up.

Your packaging – physical appearance, mental expectations, psychological readiness, and ethical set ups are part of what make you who you are, and what help to determine what is thrown at you.

Skim through the nuggets below:

  1. People don’t enter our lives by ‘mistake’ or by ‘accident’. We attract them.


  1. Everyone in your circle of friends was attracted into your life because of who you are.


  1. Your past relationships reflected who you were at that point in time. If you are in a relationship with someone presently, you attracted that person because of who you are.


  1. If you are not happy with your relationship, you should take a deeper look at yourself…you are responsible for it.


  1. If you want a great partner, become a great partner yourself.


  1. Your outer qualities, like your physical beauty can never cover up the real you. Even if you look like a nun but deep within you there are thoughts of fear, worthlessness, and low self-esteem, you will attract abusers, users and manipulators into your life. The truth is that you cannot hide who you are.


  1. When you look at that person in your life, it’s like looking into a mirror; it is a perfect reflection of who you are and what you stand for. If you don’t like what you see, then you should start by changing you.


  1. You may wish to be in a relationship with that impressive person, but if your inner qualities don’t resonate, the relationship will struggle and dissolve. For your relationship to be successful, you and that person must share certain values.


  1. Water always finds its own level. You may try to deceive the ignorant, but you cannot deceive yourself.


  1. It is so simple. Become the person you are searching for, and that person will be attracted into your life.

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