Truth is everyone finding love and getting married mostly believes their partner is an angel and their marriage will be paradise on earth…until the human nature takes over the marriage.
Until you become a new creature who is totally transformed, there is no guarantee that all your dreams will come true.
There are real life principles that must be strictly adhered to in the marriage institution, and it is only the instrumentality of God’s presence and the prevailing of the fruit of the spirit that you can be armed with enough ingredients that would make your marriage beautiful.
In fact, if you planned your marriage to be a Godly union, your marriage will probably be the spot of target for evil attacks. By the time financial constraints, job losses, career pause, health limitations, or delayed conception, still births, or barrenness slaps you here and there, and you find yourself in Lo-Debar of life, and it looks like you don’t know what you are doing, even the most loyal and faithful spouse will question God if He made mistake bringing you two together.
Marriage is a life ride that both riders must agree to from the beginning that it is a ‘ride to the end’, ani no one is getting out as the ride won’t stop for any reason. By the way, only one person drives this ride…the other is the navigator